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12月31日

New Year Resolution

Have u got one? Mine would be only kept to myself just in case i fail to fulfil it this time next year..
12月26日

Have u had a jolly good christmas?

The No.1 christmas present i have got this year is a pair of luxury cozy Lounge Socks from Andy and Elspeth, whom i was staying over christmas. i pulled them on as soon as i got them. brilliant, just perfect for the lounge- around days. Drifting into the lounge in PJ about 10am; still yawning with half-open drowsy eyes on the couch; turned the tele on; grabbed the daily newspaper or just fell asleep again..........that was my perfect lounge-around days and i quite enjoyed it....Have i still got any days like that ? Hmm..that's a good question but i'd rather not answer it.
 
Christmas dinner was just wonderful. Have u ever tried bread sauce instead of traditional cranberry sauce; roasted patatos are as popular as always; brussel sprout, hate it or love it; for dessert, christmas pudding with brandy butter, fruit salads combinded with maringue or home- made chocolate cake, take ur pick; if u like none of these, there was still apple and cranberry tart. i am not a big fan of pastry stuff though.........
 
 
 
 
12月17日

Big Day

Monday, 12 December, 2005

 

Graduation Day

It was just a typical bleak midwinter morning, but for me, it was rather unusual and special.  It’s my graduation day. Yep, I made it. By 8am, I was already smartly dressed in my graduation robe. It felt great but heavy. I guess these robes are probably exclusively tailored for the white students whose shoulders are way too broader than such a little Chinese girl like me, because it just kept falling down and I dared not run or get too excited fearing that it might fall apart anytime. They are also as heavy as saddlers, and I had to adjust my shirt all the time to make sure I looked okay. So by the end of the day my shoulders were just so tense and stiff that I couldn’t even smile naturally when I got my graduation photo taken.

 

The ceremony started at 10am sharp, as we lined up and slowly marched into the Great Hall, the trumpet went joyfully. There they are, my dear friends, Andrew, Sue and Joe from the Lions Club, and Elspeth, dear sister from the church. I could tell immediately from their glowing faces that they were proud of me at that moment. I was just smiling at them, expressing how much I appreciated they made time to come. Generally speaking, it’s not a pompous ceremony as universities like Oxbridge. On hearing my name, I stepped quickly onto the front and received the conferment from the Chancellor, ‘Congratulations, you have done very well’. Habitually I said ‘cheers’ instead of ‘thank you’. I am sure the Chancellor wouldn't mind. anyway, Who cares, I am done.

 

Apart from the ceremony, the best part of the day was to see so many friends again from the old school days and many of whom were just bumped into out of the blue. Screaming in surprise, hugging with great affection, we just couldn’t help expressing how happy to see each other again. Departing was certainly sad, but as long as we keep each other in mind, distance is really nothing.

 

As Christmas is approaching, my dear friends, I miss you more than anytime of the year though we are still thousands miles away. The message here is I have always considered myself very lucky and blessed to have had friends like you and I have been so grateful for that. Have a very happy Christmas and God bless.

 

 

 

10月22日

i have got cell now

call me at 07738413631
10月7日

Smarties Work Best

Sorry for the poor quality of the pix recently uploaded..i have been keeping busy with all the youth work though what i am doing is rather insignificant and much less glamorous compared to those group leaders who do all the talking...shifting chairs, playing with children, hoovering carpet and folding tables...i wouldn't say i enjoy it very much, but considering my experience in youth work, fair enough ! i am doing my best everyday anyway and i am doing well.
 
 
 
 
10月3日

a new start of learning curve

it's been great and i am heading home in two weeks time.....yahoo!!!!!!!!!
9月14日

Leaving Lancaster

it's an unusually umcomfortable feeling. it's an neither speakable nor expressable sadness. obviously i am heading for something that seems to be quite exciting, yet i am not really excited about it. obviously i have got something that is quite memorable in Lancaster, yet i don't know why i can't just cry out to show how sad i am about leaving all these behind as i used to. that might make me feel better. Andrew might have a point there,' that's all because you have grown up'.....have i ? went to Lion's tuesday meeting for the last time today and good to see all the familiar and warm faces. Andrew came to pick me up as usual in his posh BMW. he looks especially great today , and i noticed that he's got a green tie, which just match my green shirt.....everything seemed to be the same and everything seems fine.  i sold the raffle and received gifts from the Lions. and i never expected i would cry untill Andrew stood in front of me, seriously and continuously said ' you know where we are', all of a sudden, the tears burst out and i told him i am gonna miss him sooo much. strangely, i thought i would have cried when i said goodbye to David or Craig whom i spent much more time than Andrew. but when that moments came, it's the other way around..which makes it even sadder.
9月7日

she's beautiful

congratulations on the birth of deborah and dan's baby girl, Miram...SHE is beautiful..i am sooooo dying to hold her in my arms...........so happy for them...and can't wait to see the little girl in a year when deborah and dan come back to China..... 
 
 
9月6日

free at last?????????

Can't believe that after 36 hours awake, i am still sober, sitting in front of my coputer fixing my dissertation..............whether it's a yes or no from my supervisor......i am handing it in  or i am going mad.........
8月31日

THE ADVENTURE OF SEEING THE DOC

went to hospital today cos of unbearable stomachache.,,,,thought i would have felt much better having seen the doc, ...WORSE....long have heard of the bad reputation of NHS, it's just never been affected before, this time, i can't believe i was actually in hospital, all the waiting, useless routine check up, i was left lying there most of the time and having found out that the painkiller didn't work out, the doc told me let's wait and see if the stomach could take care of itself....SELF CURED?? yeah!! good idea.... then sent a nurse or what to sell me more painkillers and go back!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
 
having come back to my room...it seems i can't do anything just putting up with the constant pain, a bit chilly, a bit dizzy, a bit streessed out and feel very much ridiculous........
 
dear friends, take care of yourself,,,there is no doc here for you.........if you are sick, so be it....
 
 
 
8月26日

raccoon eyes again

530am....yawning...birds chirpping ...when does it come to an end ??? is there anybody thinking of me at the moment?? i guess NOBODY...anybody out there?
8月24日

xoxoxoxoxoxo

YOU WAIT, EVERYONE HAS AN ANTARCTIC !
8月23日

HESK BANK

this tuesday is Lion's social evening..so no meeting!!! and we went to a pub named Hesk Bank , which is said to have more than 200 years history...after sandwiches and chips, we went along the canal and visited some boat houses....it's  a bit dark, couldn't see everything clearly but we have got Andrew, a live distionary of Lancaster's history......he is sooooooooooo cool....i love him.....
8月22日

Countdown Days turned me into a paranoid creature

i am in a very very very depressing mood lately cos i am pissed off with myself for some reasons plus fxxxxxx cold in the broad daylight in summer.....darn!!!!!!!..i know i am gonna be okay soon...better stay in my room  and not go out to offend people............everything is gonna be frozen to keep them fresh till i am resurrected !!!!! 

 

 
Turn in my dissertation
Go get popcorn and snacks and a tankful of alchohols
Get a movie or  get legless
Drink till drop and sick in bed for a couple of days.......reflection
Get together with friends
PACK
 
 
 
 
 
no food + laziness + a phone call+ wash-up === a jumbo bowl of noodles made by Grace ...thank u, Grace and Alex...
 
 
 
 
 
 
8月21日

LAWN GREEN BOWLING

Time: Beautiful Sunday afternoon
Venue: Intoxicating Lake District
People: Amazing Lions and Lionesses
Activity: Lawn Green Bowling
 
 
 
Another unforgettable experience with the Lions-----Lawn Green Bowling....When Susan told me that we were going to go Lawn green bowling, My first reaction was, ' wasn't that for old people ?' i didn't mean to be rude to suggest Susie is old, heehee..it's just the impression i have got for this one of oldest ball games ' on a sunny afternoon some old men in their cloth caps, doddering up and down the lawns with two wooden balls in each of their hands. i have seen old people play it in China but have never given a go myself..but from today on, if anybody comes up with the surprising face that i actually went Green Bowling, i would defend myself by telling them ' you are sadly mistaken by those stereotypes, THIS IS absolutely a game for all ages!!!! and it's easy to learn...
 
Luckily i  have got two coaches today..one is craig, who explained the basic rules of the game and what is what....for some reason, he can never explain things  but today i think he did quite well, OR it is  just easy to figure out by watching others play..' just roll your ball as close  as possible to a target ball called 'jack'.....'one side of the ball is designed slightly flattened so that it rolls with a curve, which is also the hardest part of the game' .........yadayadayada...okay..got it...then the other coach is my partner Ken Thomas, such a cheerful man...He is a top player and it's been such a pleasure to be on his team...we played two games altogher, lost the first one cos my performance was disappointing and won the last one, it's not that i have improved, it's just Ken is way tooooooo good..heehee...or we were just lucky..anyway, in Ken's words, ' we are just playing for fun'...yeah..he's soooooo right to the point of the mission statement of the Lions Club,' FOR FUN, FELLOWSHIP, AND FUNDRAISING-----JUST FOLLOW THAT LION'
 
The food was also brilliant!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! for someone like me who's having sandwiches everyday, this is totally a winner .....i just love the Lions sooooooooooo much, especially the L&M Lions and Lionesses..
 
trivially, special thanks goes to the Milnes family that picked us up all the way from Heysham and Susan and Andrew sent us back, safe, quick and cheeful............xiexiexiexie!!!!!!!!!!
 
 
 

 
 
8月18日

the more the merrier

i need at least 50 references for my dissertation................and the more, the merrier....gosh!! 

 

i am getting addicted to alcohol lately...last night i had a bottle of Lager about 2am..and tonight i am drinking 'breezer'..only 5%vol......compared with the Jack Daniel i had in Scotland, it's really nothing............

 
can smell mari in the corridor ...it really stinks...oh. no..does that mean i am smoking pot indirectly.......oh, NOOOOOOOOO....
 
is it that hard to fall out of a relationship ??? no idea...hmm.......break up one day, and get together another day,,,,does every relationship have to go through such 'test'....hopefully mine doesn't...
 
Richard mysteriously couldn't find his fork last night and since i was the only one in the kitchen at that time, which means i was the only witness, he came to my room last night to start the investigation.........
 
why do people choose Prague as a destination for their holiday,,,,is it because of like ' the unbearable lightness of being' that it's much easier to only have a physical relationship rather than an emotional one in Prague. got some money in pocket, some nice threads, unattached, free as a bird......i'd like to go sometimes....
 
mom and dad miss me and they would like me to go back ASAP..but sorry, ma and pa, i have already make my commitment to this voluntary work and i am gonna stick to it......i miss you too.
 
that's about it for today.......meaningless and harmless, but it's just a typical day of my life in the uk.....not too shabby...huh!
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
8月15日

i wanna say..........

Shurui, Yuyu, thank you sooooooooooooooooooooooooo much xxxxxxxxxxxxx
Deborah and Dan, congratulations on the birth of your baby girl xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Grace and yingying, have fun at Edinburgh xxxxxxxxxxxxx
Janet and Rachel, don't lose heart, our Lord is faithful xxxxxxxxxxxxx
Grandpa Corks, Happy 85th Birthday xxxxxxxxxxxx
Grandma Corks, get well soon xxxxxxxxx
Craig, enjoy your trip at Prague xxxxxxxxxx
Jon, Good luck with your new relationship xxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Richard, i am crossing my fingers for your job application xxxxxxxxxxx
Vic and Brian, congratulations on your wedding...Vic is gonna be the most beautiful bride xxxxx
Megan and Mark, i am so excited for you adopted baby girl, Grace xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Stephen and Kellie, can't wait to see you guys and your baby boy xxxxxxx
Chad, you are a great guy xxxxxxxxxxx
mom and dad, take care and i love you xxxxxxxxxxxxxx
gebo, i am praying for your new job xxxxxxxxxxx
weiwei, go to church if you have got time xxxxxxxxxxxx
Lord, i am struggling with my dissertation xxxxxxxxxxxxxx
and many more xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
last but not least, to myself, i am blessed to have these people in my life, they are in my prayers..........
 
 
 
 
 
8月11日

我喜欢她们家

今天去shurui 和 YU 那边蹭饭吃了....贼好吃啊...最近有事没事就去敲他们家窗户好象已经成为习惯了.要杯柠檬茶,吃几片薯片,白话两句.笑话YU.直到她气得把我赶出去..哈哈..太可爱了......虽然有扰民的嫌疑,不过每天看到他们就觉得特亲切....最近一直被论文烦着,好象也不能为他们做点什么..不过YU今天刚给了我一个陪她运动减肥的机会,我可得好好把握啊......快点写完论文就经常可以找他们混了...就冲这个.....得抓紧!!!!!
8月6日

没什么好说的

gotta carry on......hanging in......homesicking and wish i could have a brother or sister..haha..that'd be great.. should i blame one child policy,  speaking from a nation's perspective, the policy is absobloodylutely necessary, but personally..it really stinks.....
7月31日

Stranger

hey girl..you have tried to reconcile and it didn't seem to do the trick..so now you have to accept the reality that from today one this person is out of your life.......put everything in a box, seal it and vault it........and you have also learned people do fail you so don't feel so surprised and upset next time...........